with Red Lily and Ziggi

Challenge and rethink traditional shibari norms by exploring the space between Aibu and Seme, from minimalism to maximalism, and develop your own expressive approach to rope.

This transformative 2-day intensive workshop designed for intermediate and advanced shibari practitioners will cover techniques for minimalist ties as well as practical approaches to maximalist styles, and how to move between the two.

Red Lily will delve into the fluidity and dynamics between the binarism of aibu and seme, the two most demanded and demanding vibes of shibari. Participants will explore the spectrum from minimalism to maximalism and from traditional norms to their deconstruction, enhancing their understanding of the ties and discover new emotional connections.

Workshop Highlights:

• Exploring Fluidity: Understand the interplay between aibu and seme, learning how to seamlessly transition and blend these roles.

• Minimalism to Maximalism: Experiment with varying degrees of complexity and intensity in your ties, moving from simple, minimalist techniques to elaborate, maximalist forms.

• Deconstructing Norms: Challenge and rethink traditional shibari norms, fostering a more personalized and expressive approach to your practice.

Hands-On Practice:

Engage in exercises that offer both partial and full suspension options, allowing you to choose the level of challenge and comfort that suits your skill level and interest.

Key Learning Objectives:

• Enhance your technical skills with a range of tying techniques.

• Develop a nuanced understanding of the aibu and seme dynamics.

• Foster creativity and innovation in your shibari practice.

• Build deeper connections and communication with your partners.

• Prerequisites

  This workshop is intended for intermediate and advanced students.

  Participants should have:
  - a solid foundation in basic shibari techniques
  - experience with either partial or full suspension practices (all exercises will include both partial and full suspension options.)

  It is recommended that you join with someone you feel connected with, no matter if it is a long-term relationship or a brand-new feeling.

• What to Bring

  Please bring:

  • your open mind

  • a desire to explore more, deeper. 

  • 12 ropes.

• About the Teacher

  Red Lily is a renowned Shibari expert, relational coach and queer educator with over a decade of experience teaching across Europe. Specializing in norm-critical education, Red Lily combines her deep understanding of Shibari with a unique approach to relational dynamics, offering workshops that challenge traditional norms and empower individuals to explore their identities, inside and outside ropes. Her work is deeply personal, rooted in authenticity, and she is known for creating inclusive spaces where participants can safely explore their boundaries and connections.